When I Was 25... It Was a Very Good Year

Sunday, October 25, 2009

10/25/2009

Well folks, it's official: My days as a New Yorker are numbered. In roughly four weeks, I will be starting a new adventure in the Pacific Northwest - Seattle, to be specific. I've been offered a job there with an up-and-coming market research firm, and am excited to say that I am accepting the offer.

Knowing now that the current chapter of my life is coming to a close, I can't help but reflect on everything that has happened here since arriving in May 2006. In many ways, I barely recognize the young man who landed here with two large boxes of belongings, a set of golf clubs and romanticized expectations. At one point, I almost lost all touch with that person. However, thanks to a few very special people, I leave here not a different person altogether, but simply a changed one. And changed, I hope, for the better.

I will remember New York has a harshly paternalistic city: One that threw me into the deep end and forced me to swim, or drown. We've butted heads a few times, but after all is said and done I will always be thankful for the experiences I have had here. They will undoubtedly have an impact on how I perceive my surroundings for the rest of my life. After all, there's no other basis for comparison quite like New York City... or is it simply incomparable?

This will be the city that taught me the importance of financial planning (which is a bit ironic, considering the almighty Wall Street's recent failures)... of making nutritious eating and exercise an irremovable priority... of making time to try new things and participate in the old ones I should never allow to fade out of my life. And when it comes to love - and those of you who know much about me know that my heart tends to make its position on matters heard loud and clearly - New York will be the setting I remember behind both the great heights and low depths love can embody. In more than a few ways, I will likely not encounter such an onslaught of life lessons as I have had to face these last few formative years. And so New York, despite your faults, I can only thank you and leave with a smile on my face.

I have purchased a new moleskine to carry around with me during these next few weeks, as I expect a rush of sentiments, memories and thoughts to fill my head as I prepare for my departure. Sooner rather than later, I hope to share some of them here. Until then, be well.

8/14/2009

Friday, August 14, 2009

Happy Friday everyone! Here's hoping that you do something fun or relaxing this weekend. I will be spending mine having a catch, playing Tiger Woods at Fredie and Mel's, kayaking, golfing and playing the bass. B-e-a-utiful. =)

While browsing NYtimes.com today, I came across an article titled "The Expense of Eating with Celiac Disease" and have some thoughts on it that I want to share. (Interested readers can find the article here: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/15/health/15patient.html?ref=health)

First, allow me to clarify that I do not have Celiac, and am fully gluten tolerant. I just have an above-average awareness and understanding of gluten-free (GF) and empathize with people who do have Celiac or are gluten intolerant. So when I see something in the news, I read it.

The premise of the article is that when people go GF, their grocery bills increase significantly as a result stocking up on "gluten-free versions of breads, crackers and pizza made from grains other than wheat" that "can be expensive and might not even be that healthy, since most GF products are not fortified with vitamins."

Now, some GF products out there are more expensive than their non-GF counterparts. When you're talking about a $1.29-cent loaf of "bread," everything is going to be more expensive. But hey - now if you're on the price is right and they ask you how much the loaf of bread costs, you know the answer.

I'd like to argue that for most people, the grocery bill increases aren't a result of going GF or even supply-side market conditions. Consider this: The only part of the food pyramid that deals with gluten is "Grains." Meat, nuts, beans, dairy, fruits, vegetables... all GF. Not to mention there are also grains that are GF (any kind of rice, quinoa, oats). Personal note: If you actually eat the proper amounts of meat, nuts, beans, dairy, fruits and vegatables each day, 6-11 servings of grains seems a bit much! (And don't tell me you won't be getting enough fiber - that's what the beans and fruits and veggies are for.)

So, let's say someone has to go GF, and they've already been shopping according to the Food Pyramid. Why should there bills increase much, if at all? The fact is, they probably won't. So that means going GF isn't the real reason people see increases. I propose that true reason for the increases is that people were not buying the natural foods recommended in the food pyramid. I know when I went from eating processed this and frozen that to eating 3 balanced meals comprised of actual food each day, my bills increased.

The NY Times article is awesome for bring attention to the cause of GF - particularly its mention of how Celiac is ignored by the drug industry because there's no way to treat it with a drug (and therefore, no profits to be made). But in my opinion, the article might as well have been called, "The Expense of Eating Real Food - Gluten Free or Not."

That is all. =)

8-2-2009

Sunday, August 02, 2009

[a la Bill Lumbergh of Office Space] "Whaaat's happening? Yeah.... if you could just... write in this blog more than once every 4 months, that would be greeeeeeat. Mmkay? Thaaanks."

It's been a long time coming, but here is a new entry! I could say that part of the reason why I haven't written is that life has been pretty routine, or consistent, during the last few months. However, that's not entirely true. Another part of the reason is that once I fell behind, it felt like the next entry would have to make up for lost time and be even longer... and then more time passed... and the cycle perpetuated itself. Anyway... highlights of the last 4 months:

• May: The things that I remember most about May were the events behind two trips I made to Arizona. The first was my sister's graduation from NAU; and the second was my best friend's wedding.
• June: Did anything happen in June? For some reason I'm drawing a blank on this one, so I will say the highlight of the month was a trip out to CT to play golf with Justin and Kim.
• July: July was a great month. I visited friends in DC for Independence Day, and was lucky enough to attend the concert at the Capitol featuring Aretha Franklin. I turned 25, celebrating three times with friends in Arizona, New York, and Connecticut. And I reconnected with one of my favorite people in the world.

So now it's August, and I have just started reading a book called Predictably Irrational (Dan Ariely) that delves into the "Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions," or behavioral economics. The first chapter of the book was enjoyable and thought provoking, and largely inspired me to write this new post.

Consider the following statement (the last sentence of Chapter 1: The Truth About Relativity). The more we have, the more we want. And the only cure is to break the cycle of relativity. The premise is basically that in a perfect world, we would be able to make decisions based solely on who we are and what we need - like living in a vacuum. However, in the real world, we are constantly comparing with other people, products or services - consciously or not - and this skews our goals and desires.

It's such a strong impulse that marketers can use it to their advantage by introducing options of different prices and feature sets designed to steer you toward the one they want to sell. How often do you go to the store for something basic only to walk out with an upgraded (and slightly more expensive) version?

For a while now, I've been pretty aware of the possibility for people to become the possessions of their possessions. It really started when I heard someone talk about not wanting to amass lots of material things because they would ultimately become something of an anchor. As I furnished my apartment in June of last year, with each major purchase (i.e. bed, TV) lurked a thought in the back of mind: If you ever move somewhere, these things are now your responsibility.

Anyway, from now on I will be attempt to be more aware of when I'm comparing or skewing my decision-making process away from what it would be in a vacuum. I consider myself to be a pragmatic person, but it really seems like this is a pervasive element in daily life that can always be improved upon.

That's all for now! Hope you are well.

March 8, 2009

Sunday, March 08, 2009

Hello! I hope this entry finds you happy and healthy this weekend, and that you are taking good care of yourself. Here's what been on my mind these last couple weeks!

Sometimes we do patently foolish things even though we know they are patently foolish. Case in point: I threw away the combination to my new lock thinking I had it memorized. After not using it for two weeks, it turns out I don't. Doh!

We had pizza in the office a few days back, and there was an advertisement for this product called the Ab Rocket printed on the top and sides of the pizza box. I can see what they're trying to do: reach people who feel guilty about eating pizza and get them to buy something that will help them lose the gut they may be getting from eating that pizza. I'm not sure it's a great approach.

I really enjoy NPR podcasts. At 20-30 minutes each, they are perfect for listening to at work and provide me with continuous updates on what's going on in areas I'm interested in such as the environment, economy and music. The All Songs Considered podcast introduces artists you've likely never heard of. Some of them I fast forward through; several others I listen to with a neutral ear; and a handful I really enjoy. Check out www.jbm-music.com to hear one artist I particularly liked, and visit www.npr.org/rss/podcast/podcast_directory.php to see if there are any NPR podcasts that you might like!

There was an article in the Times recently about an expected falloff in funding/enrolling in humanities programs in colleges as a result of our economy's difficulties. I think that's pretty sad, because it's the humanities people who remind us that we're all in this together somehow and perpetuate the moral and ethical fibers that hold society together.

Apparently a few buildings in NYC have been equipped with these cogenerators that produce electricity and reuse the steam that gets created in the process to heat the building. Why aren't all medium- to large-buildings being equipped with this? And there's also an electric truck at the port of Los Angeles that can handle several tons... meaning every 'This vehicle makes frequent stops' kind of vehicle (i.e. garbage trucks, school buses) should be electric a.s.a.p. These are great opportunities to improve.

I did some reading about how President Obama is trying to establish a cap-and-trade system for carbon emissions by corporations. It got me thinking about how long people go along with harmful behaviors simply because they don't feel the harm until it has accumulated over time and everything derails. We even do it as individuals with diet and lifestyle choices. Anyhow, the power companies will complain that reducing their pollution levels or paying for carbon emissions credits will drive up the price of energy for consumers.... but that's kind of the point of the free-market. This is way overdue. What happened when gas was $4 a gallon? Everyone was talking about hybrid and electric vehicles and eliminating our dependence on gasoline. If home and office energy costs increase as a result of companies finally having to clean up after themselves, it will spur innovation toward a better type of energy. People will also finally start making a better effort to turn off the lights.

I'm glad to see that Tiger Woods made his return to professional golf. However, I was annoyed by all of the hype surrounding it.... people were calling it the 'most anticipated return in the history of the PGA Tour.' Tiger got a surgery on his knee and worked very hard to build his strength back up.... but that's cake compared to being in a head-on collision with a Greyhound bus on a foggy highway, resulting in a double-fracture of the pelvis, a fractured collar bone, a left ankle fracture, a chipped rib and near-fatal blood clots; receiving a prognosis that you might never walk again; and coming back to win the U.S. Open when it had a 36-hole Sunday. You want an amazing comeback? Learn about Ben Hogan.

I was lucky enough to be invited to a course on integrative nutrition by my friend Sandra. I learned about an eastern practice called ayurveda, a.k.a. the science of life. The speaker talked about how the earth starts fresh with each spring and how we can use the foods that grow in the various seasons to start fresh ourselves. It's all about using diet in the spring to promote the processing of fat cells that contain harmful toxins and improve the health of the lymphatic system (i.e. immunity). I think I'm going to give it a try - beginning with a 4-day detox diet and following up by trying to shop seasonally. It's interesting stuff, and you can learn more at lifespa.com.

Until next time... be well!

2/22/2009

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Greetings! I hope this entry finds you well, and enjoying the weekend.

I've been carrying around my moleskin notebook with me jotting down my ideas when they come. However, doing so has made me realize that my New Year's resolution (to write once a week) may have been unrealistic. It's not because I don't have time, but simply because some weeks I just don't have as many ideas as I would've liked. So I'm amending my resolution, limiting it to simply doing a better job of keeping track of my ideas (Which I am doing!) and posting them when it feels right.

February is a very celebratory month regarding history. We've got a couple presidents' birthdays, the other President's Day and Black History Month, to name a few. My friend Jess K. had a pretty cool idea for celebrating Abe Lincoln's birthday: Creating your own personal Emancipation Proclamation. I think it would kind of work like Lent does for Catholics - pick something in your life you want to abolish (except there's no real timeline associated it). I decided to emancipate all of the food in my fridge that had gone bad. I'm also thinking about abolishing the ties I have with old socks and underwear that are stretched/holy and ready to go. Anyway, what might you abolish? Any habits worth changing?

And by the way, I sort of wish I knew someone whose last name was Birthday. Because then I could go up to them and sing (a la Marilyn Monroe), "Happy President's Day, Mr. Birthday!" I think that would be funny.

Something ironically humorous happened recently. My friend Tony teaches a fitness class at a local college and invites his friends to come and participate. However, the administrative folks frown on it because of liability and insurance reasons, what with non-students risking injury on their property. I'd gone to the class a couple of times before we had any real trouble. A lot of the other non-students who attend the class are either former students who have old IDs or others who have created fake ones. That's where I think it's ironic... all those college students jumping through hoops to get fake IDs so they can reap the benefits of being older... all the graduates jumping through hoops to get fake IDs so they can reap the benefits of being younger.

A few days ago as I walked down the stairs of my building on my way to work I stumbled into a $20 bill just sitting there. Knowing it could only belong to one of the other three people who live on the higher floors of my building, I didn't feel right picking it up. It's hard to pass up a free $20. I hope the other two people whose $20 it was not also took the same course of action and it made its way back to its rightful owner. I also hope that karma hits me back for following the Golden Rule.

Maybe I'm crazy.... but I'm just thinking about this whole digital switch for TV and how it just got delayed another 4 months, and I smell conspiracy. Think about it... struggling economy.... nice, new flat-screen TVs collecting dust on store-shelves... why not just delay the switch another few months to get people to pony up for new TVs and get some money into the economy?

One day last week, I was making my way to the john at work to do my 'duties as an American,' as I like to say, and as I entered my usual stall - SURPRISE - out walks my boss. It was kind of like walking in my boss sleeping with my proverbial wife (just think Peter's nightmare in the movie 'Office Space.') I just couldn't take the idea of using the same facilities my boss had so freshly vacated... so I had to go to a different, less preferred stall. Oh the absurdity of it all.

And lastly for this post, a semi-philosophical rant. I frequently get lost tracing courses of events in my life backwards, marveling at how each couldn't have come to be without the previous one. I go back farther and farther and realize how long it takes a series of coincidences to line up in order for something to happen. People you meet, places you go.... all brought about by seemingly minute events years ago. It all adds together in some weird, connected way to produce what we call the present. It's kind of like the whole butterfly flapping its wings 1000 miles away and starting a tsunami, or something like that. It's mind-boggling.

Sunday, February 08, 2009

Yeah.... it's been two weeks since my last post (i.e. missed one).

However, I've got a good excuse! I was gone last weekend on a snowboarding trip to Mt. Okemo in Vermont. I've included a pic here with my good friends Fredie and Mel. (A few minutes later when we reached the top of the mountain and actually had to get back down it, things got interesting... but we all made it back to the cabin safe and sound.)

So on to the Matters for the last couple weeks.

Now, I'm sure each of us would be happy if Stevie Wonder could see. But this evening, as I watched him perform with the Jonas Brothers at the Grammies, I had to think to myself, 'If there was ever a good time to be blind...'

When I watch movies, I tend to simultaneously pay attention and get lost in the details of the background. Case in point: tonight I watched a film called '21 Grams' and couldn't help but notice that the hotel in the scene looked really similar to the motel in the TV show 'My Name is Earl.' I looked it up and they're not one and the same. Lesson learned: Motels generally look the same. Now pay attention to the movie.

Speaking of movies, there was a preview for 'Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind' before '21 Grams.' It's one of my favorite films, but I don't think I've ever seen the preview before. It's presented as an ad for the fictional memory erasure office in the movie, and as I watched it I realized why I like that movie so much. I tend to subscribe to the idea that if I could ever go back and change something about my past, I wouldn't because even mistakes are something to learn from. Even still, it's tempting to think that it might be easier just to erase the painful memories rather than take the time to see the lesson in them.

Did you know that philophobia is a persistent, abnormal and irrational fear of love and intimacy? I didn't either until earlier this week when I looked it up. I don't know if I'm afraid of love and intimacy, but I know I'm afraid of homeless people and there's little difference in the feelings I get when I'm approached by a homeless person or a beautiful girl. So maybe I've got a small case. I do believe that when love hits you, there's no hiding from it. No matter how hard you try.

I'm not a fan of having to go outside in the rain. But there is one thing about it that I enjoy: letting my umbrella form a puddle on the floor of the subway and trying to see a picture or image in it. It's like a mix of cloud watching and the ink blot test psychologists use. Recently I saw an elk standing on the end of a cliff.

While I was in Vermont I saw a commercial for the National Automobile Dealers' Association. I had to smile at the irony of their acronym. Just ask yourself: How much money are they making these days selling cars they try to applaud for getting 20 miles per gallon in the city? (Hint: NADA). How much money should they get from the government for failing to adapt to a changing world these last 30 years? (Hint: NADA).

And now some really fast random thoughts:

• Every time I watch Letterman and see his bandleader, I'm perplexed by how weird that guy looks.
• Something about melted cheese always makes me want to drink some milk.
• After all this ado I can't believe they're delaying the switch to digital TV. I mean, seriously.

1-25-2009

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Greetings! It may have taken until 9:30 PM Sunday night, but I am sticking with my resolution to write here once a week. This week's 'Matters' seem a bit more serious in nature than last week's, or at least less random or trivial. Here we go.

With the back-to-back events of MLK Day on Monday and the inauguration of our first biracial President on Tuesday, my thoughts turned to the changes regarding race that have occurred in the U.S. since the Civil Rights movement. It's hard to hear President Obama speak of being a man whose father may not have been served at a restaurant 60 years ago without feeling like we've made some progress. At the same, however, those 60 years are only one-quarter of the 221 years that have passed since our Constitution was adopted; and while we should celebrate progress, we must also continue striving to further that progress. In the 2001 film Ghost World, the character Seymour takes an ironic and misguided, if not well-intentioned, look at race, stating, "I suppose things are better now, but I don't know. People still hate each other, they just know how to hide it better." I hope that his view is overdoing things: that race-based hatred in the US is becoming extinct, rather than simply better hidden. However, I do take the statement to mean that we cannot accept things as completed yet. As Americans, we each have a responsibility to work toward that self-evident truth our founders spoke of: that all are created equal in their right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.

On an equally serious note, I was struck this week by the phrase 'only technically alive.' I was reading an article that used the expressing in referring to life-supporting mechanisms that keep individuals who are brain-dead alive in hospitals. Now, I am quite thankful to be growing up in a time where life spans are longer than ever and research on resveratrol is showing potential for making more of those years active and vivid ones. (Google resveratrol. It's interesting stuff!) However, I have got to say that I have no interest in ever being only 'technically alive.' It sounds terrible - just the phrase makes me uncomfortable.

For a few years now, I've had a series of reactions to certain raw foods pop up. It started with unpeeled apples, then carrots and parsley, and occasionally almonds. When I eat these foods, breathing becomes painful and I have an uncomfortable pressure in my sternum; this is usually followed up by 15 minutes of heavy hiccuping. The key word here is raw foods. When the carrots are cooked in some way, I get no problems. And the same goes for peeled apples. This week I came across the term oral allergy syndrome. Apparently, it is commonly seen in adult hay fever sufferers (like me) who see reactions from certain foods based on the pollens that they are allergic to. And sure enough, almonds, apples, parsley and carrots are all prime candidates.

On a lighter note, there was great cause for personal celebration this week when I saw that the D-Backs have fired the guy who plays D. Baxter, their mascot, for drunk driving. Anyone who has ever been with me during a live game or televised shot of D. Baxter knows that I hate that guy. He's gotta be the worst mascot I've ever seen. So while his drunk driving is not to be celebrated, his resulting removal is.

See you next week!

1-17-2009

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Good afternoon! It's been a week since my last post, and I'm still in good standing with my New Year's resolution. I got myself a little notebook and have been jotting down my thoughts throughout the week. I've even decided that I will call these little random thoughts 'Matters.' (Get it? I heart wordplay.) So without further ado, here we go!

I watched one of my favorite films, Garden State, this week and decided that my favorite quote from the film is, "I'm okay with being unimpressive. I sleep better." I feel like it speaks to the running debate I have with myself about what I'm supposed to be doing with life. Sometimes I feel like I lead too simplistic and sheltered of a life - I hear about exotic travel or getting involved in other areas of passion in their lives, and I think to myself, "I don't really have anything like that." Other times I look at my life and am proud of what I've gone through in the last year or so - I've got my first real apartment and have outfitted it, am cooking more and eating better than I used to, am exercising more, have no student loans and have developed good friendships. I feel like there's a planning battle between immediate gratitude and future needs (and saving for them). Anyhow, I've got my whole life ahead of me to experience anything that comes along. So yeah, I'm okay with being unimpressive. And I do sleep better!

On another Garden State note, I tend to notice new things about movies each time I watch them, and this time my ears picked up a song playing in the background of one scene that isn't on the film's phenomenal soundtrack. I listened hard and managed to pick up one line of lyrics; I looked it up online and it turned out to be a song by an artist named Alexi Murdoch. Apparently the track wasn't on the soundtrack because it was already owned by the TV show OC soundtrack. But for those of you who enjoy the Garden State soundtrack - look him up, because he definitely fits the vibe well.

I also heard an awesome classical rendition of David Bowie's Man Who Sold the World by a group called The Section Quartet. They do classical versions of a lot of popular music, including Such Great Heights by Postal Service. If you're looking up Alexi Murdoch on iTunes, you might as well look up these guys too.

Now, on to a random event from the week. I got a call from a number I didn't recognize on my phone and a subsequent voicemail. It was a woman from CT who left a message for someone else asking about insurance policies. My first thought was, 'Should I call this woman back and let her know she got it wrong? What if it's serious?' Then I thought, 'It takes ignorance to listen to someone's outgoing message, not realize you've dialed the wrong number and proceed to leave a message.' So despite feeling a little guilty about it, I did not call back. Considering I didn't get another call, she must've realized her mistake.

After picking up my little Matters notebook, I ran smack dab into a Trader Joe's in Brooklyn!! (Yes, two exclamation points because it is THAT exciting.) I told myself I would just look around to see what it was like and promptly left with $25 in groceries. It's a beautiful thing - much quieter than the stressful experience of visiting the TJ's in Union Square. Among other things, I picked up some pre-marinated carne asada steak to make in the new Foreman grill; I highly, highly recommend it. It made for two delicious meals this week when paired with some mixed veggies, rice and dinner rolls.

I hate it when two subway trains pass in the opposite direction before a single one arrives in the direction I want to go. That feeling is the opposite of the glee of ripping off a paper towel one-handed.

There's a show on NBC Mondays called Superstars of Dance that features the best dancers of 8 countries squaring off and it's very entertaining and educational to watch. It introduced me to a street dancing group from LA called the Groovaloos who are exhilarating to watch - I suggest you tune in on Monday to see them compete head to head with the Shaolin Monks of China.

Pat Sajak must secretly want to do physical harm to these contestants screaming out letters on Wheel of Fortune. I mean, come on people, he's 5 feet away and you're wearing a microphone.

Verizon Fios is ripping off of Mac's advertising style. You know the Mac Guy vs. PC Guy commercials? Well now Fios has the Verizon vs. Other Cable guy commercials. Although still mildly entertaining, they lose points for unoriginality.

Watching Bush's farewell speech this week, I had mixed feelings. Here's a guy I voted for leaving office with an approval rate under 30%. On the one hand, I'm very happy we haven't had another attack since 9/11. When that plane landed in the Hudson this week, for a few seconds I had a pit of fear in my stomach. Keeping the US safe has got to be a monumental task, but at the same, it has come at such a hefty cost to the health of our nation.

And last but not least, it my dream home, I shall have a.) a planetarium and b.) a chamber orchestra.

Now if you'll excuse me, I've gotta work out and head to Trader Joe's!

First Post of 2009

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Happy new year everyone! After traveling westward to spend Christmas and New Year's in Arizona, I'm back in New York having spent the last few days trying to cure the common cold. Well, my common cold at least. I had a great trip and really enjoyed spending quality time with my family and friends. I hope everyone had a great end to 2008 and wish you a great 2009 as we round off the decade.

I've never really been one for New Year's resolutions. If I see something in my life that I want to change or start, I tend to do it right away. Although, for a time I did support the idea of 'monthly' resolutions. It seems less formidable when you refresh every month, and most habits are set for a long time if you can make it through the first few weeks. This time, however, I will use the start of the year as a good reason for resolving to write in this blog once a week. Here's the plan. I went and picked up a little moleskin notebook that I will carry with me at all times, ready for jotting down the random ideas I have throughout the week. Then, on weekends, I'll compile what I've written into a blog entry. Sounds good, no?

As for resolution-like things I've had in the works for a while, I am excited to get some good momentum going in the health & fitness department this year. I'm going to try to drink less beer and more wine instead, and continue eating well. I'll be getting a lot of use out of the new Foreman grill my mom gave me for Christmas, and have a new set of Bowflex 552 adjustable dumbbells arriving Monday. So the plan is to really start challenging myself during workouts and simultaneously feed my body with healthy foods and lots of protein to build with.

So, let the resolving begin. And feel free to comment/share your resolutions or goings on!

Random Thought: December 12

Friday, December 12, 2008

So, a funny thing happened today. I was going through the usual rounds of visiting websites in the morning (you know... 1. Gmail, 2. Facebook, 3. SI.com and 4. Icanhascheezburger & co.) when I came across an interesting 'Looks like photo.'

Many of my closest friends from Arizona know me as 'Brodie.' I was given the nickname as a result of an apparent resemblance to Jason Lee's character from the Kevin Smith cult classic 'Mallrats.' More recently, I've had someone tell me I resemble Ryan Reynolds now and then.

I guess since the two of them look alike, it make sense. I just thought it was funny.